New year doesn't bring anything.

I am really feeling sick of hearing these words time and again. 'May this year bring you happiness and good fortune'.
     Is it true?? When a new year comes does it change anything?? Every time I hoped so only to end up in despair. Nothing changes. Dreams are still dreams. Wish list is still the same in length. But what made these people think a mere change in date (that normally takes a month to get used to) could bring around a change in your life.
     After spending a while in wondering I decided not to believe in this. It is we who play the sole role of being the architect in changing just about anything in our lives. Nothing in life changes unless we take an effort. No fortunes. No magic. We are everything.
     No more "may this year bring you all that you wanted in your life". Instead I am hoping that you all take that much needed efforts (that was lacking often) in elevating your life  and turning this year into a very successful and a memorable one.

Relationships

      Traveling in a bus is a pain for most people. To some extent it is. But today i felt different. Thanks to the telephonic conversation that I was hearing. (Don't get me wrong. I was not intended to hear anything. She spoke so loudly that it caught my attention. And i was made to give up my hobby of counting the bikes because of this). It was a very heated argument. She accuses the party on the other side for taking her lightly of late.

     I gave few moments of sympathy for the receiver and then started to wonder why people are so desperate to be in a relationship.  Okay, I understand it and obviously i know how wonderful it would be to have a girlfriend. But the sad thing is that this desperation is leading many into miseries. I have real life examples in hand but that's not the point.
     It is very awkward to listen to some dialogues that comes out of mouths that are not matured enough to deliver those. Sadly, the teens these days are doing great in getting us used to this awkwardness. How can a thirteen year old girl say "I cannot live without you,dear".
      Most of the relationships these days follow this pattern. A desperate heart meets another desperate heart and they make it a relationship. Without knowing much about each other they start their journey. Then comes the phase where the two were made to understand each other(not willingly). There comes the problems. Desperateness is no more and hence many relationships doesn't cross this phase.

  Life will be really better if we change our misconception that love is a stage in life. No its definitely not. It is a feeling and don't ever try to force a feeling. Laughter and happiness are two different things. You are not going to become happy by simply laughing.  Doesn't matter how complicated things get, it is always a beautiful feeling to be in a relationship. All that i got as an outcome of these observations is that one must wait. yes, wait endlessly....

Moment that matters

    I have heard people talk about moments that could change your life. more u read about them more will be your concerns about future. I always kept it simple. In my observation, ur life escalates right at the moment u start to appreciate ur life.
   
     There will be moments where life seems to b very ordinary. There will b moments when u think more about the life of others than the one that u r living. But once u start appreciating ur life I tell u there wont be a single moment of despair. Things that bothered us before will now b out of our sight.

    This power of life can never be understood. How does the few moments that we take to reflect our life help us in living our lives better ??? Answer unknown but one thing is for sure.
THIS REALLY WORKS!!!