Relationships

      Traveling in a bus is a pain for most people. To some extent it is. But today i felt different. Thanks to the telephonic conversation that I was hearing. (Don't get me wrong. I was not intended to hear anything. She spoke so loudly that it caught my attention. And i was made to give up my hobby of counting the bikes because of this). It was a very heated argument. She accuses the party on the other side for taking her lightly of late.

     I gave few moments of sympathy for the receiver and then started to wonder why people are so desperate to be in a relationship.  Okay, I understand it and obviously i know how wonderful it would be to have a girlfriend. But the sad thing is that this desperation is leading many into miseries. I have real life examples in hand but that's not the point.
     It is very awkward to listen to some dialogues that comes out of mouths that are not matured enough to deliver those. Sadly, the teens these days are doing great in getting us used to this awkwardness. How can a thirteen year old girl say "I cannot live without you,dear".
      Most of the relationships these days follow this pattern. A desperate heart meets another desperate heart and they make it a relationship. Without knowing much about each other they start their journey. Then comes the phase where the two were made to understand each other(not willingly). There comes the problems. Desperateness is no more and hence many relationships doesn't cross this phase.

  Life will be really better if we change our misconception that love is a stage in life. No its definitely not. It is a feeling and don't ever try to force a feeling. Laughter and happiness are two different things. You are not going to become happy by simply laughing.  Doesn't matter how complicated things get, it is always a beautiful feeling to be in a relationship. All that i got as an outcome of these observations is that one must wait. yes, wait endlessly....