sharfaraz
Monday, November 30, 2015
Death of journalism in India
Saturday, August 1, 2015
Dedicated to my friends
Years come and go. Things and people change every year. But only a few remain unchanged.
A few who don't expect anything from you..
A few whose silence irritates you.
A few who could make you smile with just a word.
A few who can't fake a smile.
A few who you can't buy with words..
A few who don't care you own a Ferrari..
A few who never wanted to know how much you like them.
A few who always sense your absence.
A few who leaves you only to let their presence felt.
A few who stands in front of you when you're attacked.
Tuesday, December 31, 2013
New year doesn't bring anything.
I am really feeling sick of hearing these words time and again. 'May this year bring you happiness and good fortune'.
Is it true?? When a new year comes does it change anything?? Every time I hoped so only to end up in despair. Nothing changes. Dreams are still dreams. Wish list is still the same in length. But what made these people think a mere change in date (that normally takes a month to get used to) could bring around a change in your life.
After spending a while in wondering I decided not to believe in this. It is we who play the sole role of being the architect in changing just about anything in our lives. Nothing in life changes unless we take an effort. No fortunes. No magic. We are everything.
No more "may this year bring you all that you wanted in your life". Instead I am hoping that you all take that much needed efforts (that was lacking often) in elevating your life and turning this year into a very successful and a memorable one.
Sunday, September 15, 2013
Relationships
I gave few moments of sympathy for the receiver and then started to wonder why people are so desperate to be in a relationship. Okay, I understand it and obviously i know how wonderful it would be to have a girlfriend. But the sad thing is that this desperation is leading many into miseries. I have real life examples in hand but that's not the point.
It is very awkward to listen to some dialogues that comes out of mouths that are not matured enough to deliver those. Sadly, the teens these days are doing great in getting us used to this awkwardness. How can a thirteen year old girl say "I cannot live without you,dear".
Most of the relationships these days follow this pattern. A desperate heart meets another desperate heart and they make it a relationship. Without knowing much about each other they start their journey. Then comes the phase where the two were made to understand each other(not willingly). There comes the problems. Desperateness is no more and hence many relationships doesn't cross this phase.
Life will be really better if we change our misconception that love is a stage in life. No its definitely not. It is a feeling and don't ever try to force a feeling. Laughter and happiness are two different things. You are not going to become happy by simply laughing. Doesn't matter how complicated things get, it is always a beautiful feeling to be in a relationship. All that i got as an outcome of these observations is that one must wait. yes, wait endlessly....
Wednesday, March 27, 2013
Moment that matters
I have heard people talk about moments that could change your life. more u read about them more will be your concerns about future. I always kept it simple. In my observation, ur life escalates right at the moment u start to appreciate ur life.
There will be moments where life seems to b very ordinary. There will b moments when u think more about the life of others than the one that u r living. But once u start appreciating ur life I tell u there wont be a single moment of despair. Things that bothered us before will now b out of our sight.
This power of life can never be understood. How does the few moments that we take to reflect our life help us in living our lives better ??? Answer unknown but one thing is for sure.
THIS REALLY WORKS!!!
Tuesday, December 4, 2012
The Need to be Different
We see a successful man and believe his path is the only path to success and we try to follow it ignoring the other billion ways to succeed. People here have good bank balance but hesitant to invest it in a business just because of the fear of loosing it. Our country's development relies hugely on this unused wealth that people put behind their name.
We see successful people from the west. Admire them. No offence in that. But offence begins when we try to follow them. We copy their attires. People must understand that their attires didnt give them sucsess, their language didnt but their work did.
"UNIQUE" is a word i love and its really pity that i'm unable to use it when i talk about my country. There is no rule that we should take only an already travelled path. When u feel an alternate better route is available, never hesitate to take it. If u didnt try how will you be able to find the best one. Success is not something that we get only by following someone's path. Have a vision. Become broad minded. Work with conciousness. Success will give you a date then.
Monday, October 22, 2012
We care for our people
Before giving money to them i used to think "what if this small coins that i give satisfy them and they remain beggars all throughout". So more often i decide not to encourage them. Well, we all know pain killers doesn't cure anything. Antibiotics do.
It would be hard to blame them for their pathetic condition. There should be a wayout for them. For a goverment that spends crores for welcoming the prime minister from neighbouring country this shouldn't be a big deal. To start camps, where these people could be brought to, made to work, provided with food. Can't just say it is goverment's duty and then shift our focus. May be our goverment is too busy welcoming visitors, justifying their crimes. So here falls a duty on us to remind our goverment about what they are here for. Serve People...